- Although I cannot control the disease process, I need to remember I can control many aspects of how it affects me and my relatives.
- I need to take care of myself so that I can continue doing the things that are important.
- I need to simplify my lifestyle so that my time and energy are available for things that are really important at this time.
- I need to cultivate the gift of allowing others to help me because caring for my relative is too big a job to be done by one person.
- I need to take it one day at a time rather than worry about what may or may not happen in the future.
- I need to structure my day because a consistent schedule makes life easier for me and my relative.
- I need to have a sense of humor because laughter helps to put things in a more positive perspective.
- I need to remember that my loved one is not being “difficult” on purpose; rather than his/her behavior and emotions are distorted by the illness.
- I need to focus on and enjoy what my relative can still do rather than constantly lament over what is gone.
- I need to increasingly depend upon others and their relationships for love and support.
- I need to frequently remind myself that I am doing the best that I can at this very moment.
- I need to draw upon the Higher Power which I believe is available to me.
